The question is this….
Why would you be more loyal to people who ignore, degrade, or devalue you than to the people who acknowledge, enhance, and celebrate you?
Common reasoning….They are my family, I have known them my whole life, I grew up with them etc.
Family loves, encourages, celebrates, respects, and honors you. The people that do not do these things are not your family. This does not mean you can’t care for those people, but it should determine who you allow your heart to be tied to.
Don’t allow your spiritual, mental, and emotional health to be destroyed by people who devalue you.